"But that's the thing about all of this, he says gently but urgently, we survive. After each knock down, each earth-shattering blow, we get up again. Even though we walk trough hell, and it feels like all we do is walk trough hell, we do eventually make it to the other side. Scarred. Mostly broken. But we survive. And then we start to rebuild ourselves. We're never the same, but we do rebuild ourselves. Because something like this is just another way in which we change. We all have to change."